Everyone knows a few people who constantly whine, complain and moan. They blame their feelings, reactions and actions on other people. You might live with such a person — or even be one.
People complain for a few reasons. “We use complaints as icebreakers,” said Clemson University psychology professor Robin Kowalski, PhD, in speaking to WebMD. “We start a conversation with a negative observation because we know that will get us a bigger response than saying something positive would.”
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